i am a sag sun, libra moon, virgo rising! how compatible am i with a virgo sun, pisces moon, libra rising?
I’m a female wondering if its possible for us to get along well. I have mars in gemini, venus in libra, he has mars in scorpio and venus in libra, his pluto is conjunct my venus. I’ve been told we wont get along, but it feels like I’ve known him forever. How do you know soul mates? I knew him as a child but he’s 10 years older than me so i only knew him as a member of the cultish organization we’d both been raised in. Even then I remember he always seemed so kind and concerned almost protective of me. I’ve ran into him a few times over the years but I wasn’t emotionally available, i’d left the organization and was dealing with the pain of what had happened in that organization. I still felt something special even though only speaking to him, but i was so fearful of anyone who was a part of that organization.I never really knew him and i still barely even talked to him, i wanted to get away from him at the same time felt safe in his presence. I always distance myself from him, because even though he’d left that organization, most people never truly can release themselves from the brainwashing it does to you. I married a very abusive man then after i left the marriage, i spent more than 6 years distancing myself from men because i needed to come to understand myself. How could i let someone hurt me like that, and never fight for myself. I’ve spent so much time self searching to understand what was wrong inside me. I’ve started trusting myself again….and now we’ve ran into each other again, 20 years since we first met. I still feel the same connection and he makes me feel at peace inside. He said he’d felt the same bond, he’d always thought their was something special between us. We’ve spent a few months connecting. Things are moving fast and i’m afraid. Logically i don’t think i can know him the way i feel like i know him but my heart feels like i’ve known him my whole life, i feel like he has part of me in him. I’m so scared to trust and follow my heart.The more we talk i’m realizing our lives have been so much alike, we’ve made many of the same major mistakes.We’ve both married twice, and had two children with each these people. Our children are the same ages and we were married the same amount of time in each marriage. our first partner cold and controlling the second aggressive and angry and we lost our identity as we tried to give so much until we were drained to nothing.
I am sorry you’ve been through so much. You are a very strong woman. You probably feel as though you know him because you have important Earth and Air signs in common. Even his Mars is in a water sign, as is your Moon. You share Venus. It isn’t unusual for abused children to marry someone who reflects their childhood, verbal, even physical abusers. I would think a cult, however loving, would fall into this category. Libras who marry young usually marry often and both of you have strong Libras. Your personalities are close enough that it isn’t surprising that you’ve picked basically the same partners. Almost everything you’ve said suggests a long, healthy and happy relationship.
Almost. There are three problems, as I see it:
The first is your Sun signs, Sagittarius/Virgo. You’ve finally found your independence, you are now your own person. You value your freedom. Virgo is bossy, fussy, can make demands on time you wish to be your own. Will you be able to make allowances for this? Will you be able to make him understand that you need a little Me time?
The second is Moon signs. Libra is balanced, not overly emotional. Pisces thrives on emotion. His Libra Rising will help, but it won’t eliminate the difference. He is generous to a fault, would give the shirt off his back. You are more practical and see the flaw in that. Most important, you are neat. He can be messy in many ways. Can you adjust to that, make allowances, necessary changes? Because he can’t. If he squeezes the toothpaste tube in the center, leaves his socks on the floor and wants to watch Chick Flicks, is it going to drive you mad?
The third is a little more troubling. The children. How many of them live at home? Virgo males are excellent parents in SMALL families. If the two of you have 4 children in the home, two of them not his, making noise and being kids it is going to be too much for him unless he has his own bolt hole. Even then, you can’t expect him to step in and become Daddy in anything but name to your kids. He will, however, expect you to become Mother. Is that going to be a problem?
Good luck to you both. You deserve some happiness.
Hard To Read Leo Male, What’s A Girl To Do?
I have been “seeing” a Leo Male that attactively persued me the moment we first met. I finally gave him my number, and we hung out for awhile, but I kind of distanced myself from him because he seemed very vague and hard for me to read at times. I’m not sure if maybe this is just him being a male in general, but he rarely answered my text messages, and when he did, it’s a good 4-5 hours later.
However, whenever we were together, he seemed attentive for the most part. But it bothered me that he would break plans easily and the texting thing kind of bothered me too. Like he was too “self important” to be with me. However, he would always make comments like “I never hear from you” and “And don’t go forever without talking to me again”, Yet I’d feel like I was pestering him with my texts and wouldn’t he make an active effort to see me when made plans?
So, this is where I need help.
I’ve moved on and started seeing another fellow Virgo like myself. My virgo male proposed marriage to me and I accepted.
Well, my leo male from my past gets wind of this and starts texting me like a mad man “Please, don’t marry him. I love you.” “Please, I want you…I love you.”
Granted, I haven’t heard anything from him in a few months. And he comes out of the blue with this. He had never told he loved me before, and now he does?
So, I met with him and he keeps telling me he wants to kiss me and how beautiful I look and that…again..he loves me. Being the charmer he is, I melt like putty in his hands. And my instinct is that he seems more attentive this time, and he is more gentle and loving in the way he touches me and looks at me. He kissed me goodbye and told me he loved me again, and wanted me to say it back…and I did although I’m not sure I meant it. I think I did? So, now it’s a couple days later and I’m feeling like it’s the same routine, I’m texting him and he texts me like several hours later with an excuse why he didn’t text me earlier. Although the “I love you‘s” seem to keep coming.
Now that I’ve written a novel and if you‘re still reading, which is appreciated if you are…my question is this:
Am I just being an overanalytical Virgo…or should I have my suspicions that he may be just a possesive Leo that doesn’t want anyone to have me, whether he truly loves me or not, and this is a big
game of some sort?
Whew….thanks for listening!
Hey how you doing ms virgo?
If your new mate already ask you to marry him, i would really not pay to much attention to your leo friend. But if you dont want to marry him then by all means give mr leo a chance.
Im a leo male.
We have alot of pride..
I could have the best chemistry in the world with you, but if i dont know for sure that i could have you i wont make the first move, especially with virgo women, who we adore by the way.
Leos cant stand rejection from people we really like.
I was courting a virgo for 2 years never made a move, because i didnt want to lose her, and come to find out she really really liked me, but she said i never made a move.
She of course after 2 YEARS moved on.
I was jelous and did the same thing you leo is doing.
But me and that young lady are still great friends, who always enjoy laughs and drinks together.
The reason why he doesnt text back is prob because he’s not a text person and would rather face to face conversations and voice conversations.
But like i said if your engaged by all means please dont fall for our charm and good looks..lol
when he says he’s buisy 9 times out 10 he is..btw..
Well i feel like i answered your novel with a novel..
Good luck ..
With the virgo,or leo…either way i’ll think youll be happy
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• Yeah, my husband and I just split up. I finally faced the fact that we’re incompatible. I’m a Virgo and he’s an a@@hole.
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